Building Belonging: Community, Connection, and Showing Up for Each Other

In this heartfelt episode of A Place in the Conversation, co-founders Nancy and Nick Everhart sit down with Cat Stenta, Director of Community Engagement at Kennett Library, to explore what it means to truly belong. From neighborhood Halloween parades and women’s lacrosse leagues to environmental film festivals and quiet support groups, Cat shares how she has spent her life creating space for others—sometimes by accident, often on purpose.

Together, they reflect on the evolving needs for connection across life stages, the power of listening, and the importance of safe spaces for both joy and grief. Cat opens up about her Quaker upbringing, the influence of her mother’s activism, and how her own journey through divorce led to a new kind of community care.

Highlights from the Episode:

• How libraries act as modern-day community hubs for both newcomers and lifelong residents

• The surprising impact of starting a women’s over-35 lacrosse team—and why joy matters

• Supporting others through life transitions like divorce by simply holding space

• Cat’s passion for environmental advocacy through Trail Creek and Wild & Scenic Film Festival

• The invitation to be “the person who welcomes someone in”—and why that role is sacred

If you’ve ever felt unsure of where you belong or wondered how to start something meaningful, this episode offers encouragement, laughter, and real-life wisdom on building community one brave invitation at a time.